How Do We Make the Transition to Memory Care Easier for Mom?

Living well with memory loss looks different for every family, and many families provide care for loved ones in their own homes, especially in the earlier stages of dementia. In some cases, though, transitioning to a residential memory care community is the best option for a variety of reasons, including access to services and amenities, a thriving social community, cognitive therapy, and assistance with activities of daily living, all within a supportive and physically secure environment. 

Although this change can be challenging and emotional for everyone involved, we discuss some practical ways to facilitate a smooth transition below. Choosing a high-quality memory community like BridgeWater Assisted Living Memory Care in Phoenix is the first step toward making this move positive for your loved one.

Choosing the Right Memory Care Community

How do you choose the right memory care community for a parent? Begin by assessing your parent’s needs and preferences. Sit down with them to discuss what is most important. Do they have a beloved pet they want to bring with them? Is there a favorite hobby they would like to continue? Do they prefer dining services or want to cook for themselves? The more you can involve your parent in the decision-making process, the more comfortable, in control, and prepared they will feel in the long run.

Of course, you want to make sure that whatever community you choose specializes in dementia care, including having dementia care specialists on staff. Cognitive therapy and opportunities for cognitive stimulation through classes and activities are some of the greatest benefits a good memory care community will provide. 

In addition to cognitive therapy, memory care communities have plenty of social opportunities. Does the memory care community have activities that appeal to your loved one? Are there scheduled recreational outings? Game nights?

Aging in Place

Varying levels of care in one community are necessary so your parent will not have to move as their health needs change. If your parent would benefit from some assistance with activities of daily living, look for memory care communities with assisted living capabilities. Caring staff are specially trained to help with personal care like dressing, bathing, and medication management, allowing those living with memory loss to maintain their independence and retain the highest possible quality of life. 

Location is another factor to consider. Many seniors are drawn to Arizona because of the warm, sunny weather, lower cost of living, and beautiful surroundings. One of the benefits of memory care in Phoenix is easy access to nearby amenities, dining, and recreational and outdoor activities. Whatever location you choose, make sure family members can visit and stay connected. 

Although online research is an excellent first step, you will be much better able to assess communities of interest by scheduling in-person tours. Don’t be afraid to ask questions of staff to make sure the community is the right fit for your family.

Easing the Transition to Memory Care

Once you have chosen the best memory care community for your loved one, there are some practical things you can do to help ease their transition.

• Provide emotional support – Both you and your parent might feel some sadness, guilt,  or anxiety. Be open and honest. Listen to your loved one’s concerns. It might be helpful to seek out a counselor or support group to walk with your family through the process. The Alzheimer’s Association is a great place to start when looking for resources and help, including support groups for families navigating dementia. 
• Help with downsizing – Moving is complicated for everyone. It’s important to support your loved one as they downsize and organize their belongings. In some cases, hiring a professional might be a great option. The National Association of Senior and Speciality Move Managers assists seniors and their families with organizing, sorting, donating, selling, packing, shipping, unpacking, cleaning, and more. Move managers are available nationwide.
• Personalize their apartment – Including familiar items, especially family photographs, favorite books and hobbies, much-loved art, or a cozy blanket, can help your parent feel more comfortable and at ease in their new apartment.  
• Stay involved – If you live nearby, visit often. Get to know the staff. Ask if you can participate in activities with your loved one. If you don’t live nearby, use technology to communicate regularly, checking in with them through video calls, phone calls, emails, and texts.
• Establish a routine – You know your loved one best. When they first move to a memory care community, the staff will conduct an assessment and develop a personal care plan. You can provide insight into the schedule and activities your parent is accustomed to so the staff can help establish a similar routine to give them much-needed stability as they transition.
• Celebrate victories – Some days will be better than others during any transition. Be patient. Focusing on the positive aspects of their new situation, like your loved one trying out an exercise class, participating in classes and activities they like, or meeting a new friend, is one way you can help them through the more challenging days. Encourage them to stay active, try new things, and keep learning, increasing their quality of life.

Moving to a memory care community will undoubtedly have some ups and downs along the way, but when you choose BridgeWater Assisted Living memory care in Phoenix, you can have peace of mind that your loved one is in good hands. Caregiving is personal for us, and we believe in helping every resident live their best life every day. 

Between our spacious, pet-friendly apartments and outstanding services and amenities, we offer excellent, affordable senior living in the heart of beautiful Phoenix, Arizona. Questions? Contact us today to learn more about us and discuss the options available to you and your family, and then come see us in person.