When Should Dad Stop Driving? 5 Signs of Cognitive Decline in Seniors
As our parents and loved ones age, we must be aware of the signs of cognitive decline. Not only does cognitive decline affect their daily activities, but it can also lead them to unintentionally put themselves and others at risk, especially if it affects their ability to drive safely. Deciding when a senior loved one should stop driving is certainly not an easy decision, but unfortunately, sometimes it is a necessary one.
Giving up driving would be difficult for anyone dependent on a personal vehicle. However, giving it up permanently, and not necessarily by your own choice, can lead to uncomfortable conversations and a feeling of loss of independence for our aging loved ones. It’s important to handle these conversations with compassion and patience, but it’s also essential to prioritize their safety as well as the safety of others.
At BridgeWater Assisted Living, we understand the importance of detecting signs of cognitive decline as early as possible. In Arizona, where seniors make up a significant portion of the population, understanding cognitive decline and its impact on driving is fundamental.
Here are five key signs of cognitive decline in seniors that may mean it’s time to reevaluate their driving abilities:
1. Memory Lapses
Forgetting appointments, recent events, or familiar routines can be a sign of cognitive decline. If your senior loved one frequently has trouble recalling where they parked their car or remembering how to do their usual daily tasks, it may be time to reassess their driving abilities. Of course, we all have off days and forget where we’ve parked our car now and then, but if these things progressively become more common, it’s important to monitor their behavior and adjust your approach accordingly.
Depending on your relationship and comfort level, starting a direct and open conversation with your loved one about their memory lapses might seem complicated, but it could also be the most helpful way to address the topic by keeping them involved. Have suggestions ready for them, such as encouraging them to write down all of their appointments and events so that they can maintain their independence for as long as possible.
If you notice memory lapses begin to impact their daily lives, including their ability to drive safely, it’s essential to take action.
2. Difficulty Navigating Familiar Routes
If your senior loved one gets lost in areas that should be familiar to them or has trouble following simple directions, it could be a sign of cognitive decline. Driving at an advanced age is not an easy topic to broach, but it’s imperative to prioritize their safety and the safety of others on the road.
Consider accompanying your loved one on drives to assess their navigation skills to address this issue. If they’re having trouble finding their way without help, it may be time to explore alternative transportation options or at least limit their driving to short, familiar routes. Using technology such as GPS tracking devices or ride-sharing services can help them safely navigate while maintaining their independence.
3. Slower Reaction Times
A person’s reaction time progressively slows down with age naturally, but if your senior loved one is having trouble reacting quickly enough to stop at red lights or stop signs, it evolves into a significant concern. Slower reaction times increase the risk of accidents, putting themselves and others at a higher risk for injury.
To gauge your loved one’s reaction times, pay close attention to how quickly they respond to changing traffic conditions. If you notice any delays or hesitation, it’s essential to address the issue the moment you are safely off the road, as causing additional stress by addressing the problem while they’re driving could be more dangerous and detrimental than simply asking them to pull the car over when safe to do so. Consider consulting with a driving rehabilitation specialist to assess their reaction times and develop a plan to improve their driving skills.
4. Confusion
If your senior loved one seems confused or has trouble understanding traffic signs and signals, it clearly indicates that they should stop driving. Signs of confusion while driving can include mixing up red and green lights, misunderstanding pedestrian signals, or failing to recognize warning signs.
Consider reviewing traffic signs and signals with your loved one and explaining their meanings and importance. If they continue to exhibit confusion, their safety and the safety of others must be prioritized by limiting or stopping their driving altogether. Explore alternative transportation options with your loved one, such as public transportation or ride-sharing services, to ensure they can safely get where they need to go.
5. Increased Anxiety or Agitation
Driving can be stressful for anyone, but noticing your senior loved one is increasingly anxious or agitated while driving may be one of the signs of cognitive decline. Anxiety behind the wheel can lead to reckless driving, accidents, or even road rage incidents.
Have discussions with your loved one about their driving experiences and emotions. Encourage them to take breaks during long drives, carpool, or explore alternative transportation options such as public transportation, ride-sharing services, or senior transportation programs to reduce stress and anxiety while maintaining as much freedom and independence as possible.
Addressing the signs of cognitive decline and driving is a sensitive issue and requires empathy and understanding. As hard as it may be for everyone involved, encouraging your loved one to prioritize their safety and the safety of others by surrendering their keys is imperative.
By working together, we can create a safer and more supportive community for our senior loved ones. At BridgeWater Assisted Living, we understand how hard starting this conversation can be and are here to help. Consider consulting with a healthcare professional or a geriatric care manager to develop a plan to address your and your loved ones’ concerns to ensure everyone stays safe on the road.